
I’m still in shock I think. Of course if you read this blog, chances are that you have already heard that Peter Millard (pgm) died Wednesday night. Peter was one of my best friends here in Colorado. I’m not even sure how to go about dealing with him not being around any more.
Peter was instrumental in the success of Jabber, Inc. He was the leader of our server team, and as such was responsible for the development of some of the most innovative features in our last couple of product releases. I could always come to him with a half-baked crazy idea, and he’d turn it into something that not only wasn’t crazy, but could be implemented pretty easily.
PGM was an integral part of the Jabber community, from his leadership on the Jabber Council, to his open source contributions, including Exodus. I had the privilege of working on Exodus with him, and learned more about Win32 from him than I ever wanted to know.
PGM was also in a community orchestra with my wife, where he played Tuba. Particularly considering he hadn’t picked up his horn for years prior to that, he was just an amazing musician. He also played twelve-string guitar; I only got to hear that once, unfortunately.
As a man, PGM was on of those that it’s always safe to look up to. You could count on him to not only do the right thing, but to quietly insist on others living up to their potential. He’s left me with a lot to live up to.
Peter is survived by his wife Christina and his daughter Zoe. I got to see them yesterday. Luckily they have a lot of friends here in Denver, so they’ll have lots of support.
Some details of the arrangements:
There will be a memorial service at 7:30pm on Wednesday May 3 2006, at Broomfield United Methodist Church. Directions.
The family has asked that in lieu of flowers, donations can be made to one of these charities in Peter’s name:
Make sure that if you send a check, you put Peter’s name in the comments field.
I thought it might be nice to link to some of the other nice things people from around the world have said about Peter:
If I missed your post, I’m sorry. Please leave a link in the comments.